Episode Spotlight: The Complete Guide To Finding Love On A Dating App
Feminist Dating Strategy
Episode Spotlight: How To Get Over The Fear Of Dating
Overcoming Dating Fear & Rejection
Episode Spotlight: Finding Love As a Queer Late Bloomer, Building Self-trust, And Healing After Heartbreak
Self-Trust & Empowerment
242. “I Want Love—But I’d Like to Skip Dating, Please”–Live Coaching Session
241. “I Stayed for a 4-Hour Date I Didn’t Want to Be On” — Live Coaching Session for Late Bloomers
Main Character Energy & Bold Action
Episode Spotlight: How to Shoot Your Shot (Even If You Feel Awkward)
239. Late Bloomer Series: How to Flirt
238. Late Bloomer Series: How to Start Dating (If You’ve Never Dated)
237. Late Bloomer Series: How to Tell a Date You’ve Never Been In A Relationship
236. How To Stop People Pleasing (And Build A Stupidly Joyful Life)
Episode Spotlight: My Qualifying/Disqualifying Questions Strategy So You Never Go On A Bad Date Again
Episode Spotlight: “How Can I Stop Being Lazy In My Dating Life?”
Episode Spotlight: Where Do I Even START With Dating?
Episode Spotlight: Owning Your Preferences is a Feminist Act
232. Sexual liberation, self-permission, and getting messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
231. How To Shoot Your Shot 100% of The Time
229. Flirting 101: My 3-Step Process to Flirt, Know If Someone’s Into You, and Ask Them Out with Ease
228. How to build confidence and agency in your dating life with Julie and Yue of the Dateable Podcast
227. You can’t say the wrong thing to the right person, here’s why
226. Creating your pleasure goals for 2025 with Susan Hyatt
225. Your Complete 2025 Dating Plan: How to go from “late bloomer” to finding the right partner with confidence
223. Stressed about your dating life (and nosy questions) during the holidays? This is for you.
221. SOFT practice for tough times
220. Slow burn vs. “The Spark”
219. Election Dating Survival Guide
212. Knowing if something is right, long-term relationship questions, and dating as an independent badass with Ali & Erica of Finding Mr. Height
211. Why you need to brag more to find love (and how to do it)
210. From feeling “behind” in dating to confidently shooting her shot 100% of the time with client Allyson
Healing from the Past & Letting Go
205. Healing after a hard breakup with Ginger Dean
204. How to ask your friend to be a co-conspirator for your dating life (and what to do if they’re not supportive)
202. Releasing toxic positivity and negative self-talk with Katie Horwitch
200. It’s publish day! Surprising things I’ve never shared about the book process
196. How Julianne attracted a feminist man and is building an epic partnership
194. From attracting emotionally unavailable men to attracting the most proactive, loving partner with client Mishi
193. Owning your preferences is a feminist act
192. From hard breakups to a joyful AF dating life with client Danielle
191. Big Dating Energy with Therapy Jeff
190. Shooting your shot challenge
189. Body liberation, Dating, and Black Joy with Jessica Wilson MS. RD.
188. How to glow in the f*cking dark with Tara Schuster
187. All about speed dating with Maxine Simone Williams, founder of We Met IRL
186. How to bless and release the wrong people
185. Getting nerdy with the research and cultural impact of dating with Faith Hill, journalist at The Atlantic
184. Being in the right relationship with Brazen Breakthrough member Maddie
182. My Qualifying/Disqualifying questions strategy so you never go on a bad date again
181. Creating a juicy in-person dating life with Brazen Breakthrough member Chloé
180. Build belief that the right relationship is inevitable with client Maya
179. The complete guide to finding love on a dating app
178. Behind the scenes of my book (available for pre-order now)
177. Sparking your creative power for the new year Laura Camien and Susan Blackwell
175. Create your own Essence-Based Preferences with ease
172. How to thrive during the holidays as a single badass
171. Money and your dating life: A conversation with financial therapist Aja Evans
170. Decolonizing coaching and building self-trust with Shirin Eskandani
167. How to go from dead-end dating to only great dates with Brazen Breakthrough Client Michelle
Bonus: Create a Confident and Joyful AF Dating Life
166. How to stop panic dating with Brazen Breakthrough client Anna
165. How to start dating as a “late bloomer”
164. How to create an in-person dating life if you’re scared to start
163. Breaking dumb dating rules
162. The complete dating detox guide
161. Am I doing enough in my dating life? (here’s a checklist to see)
159. Hana’s Main Character Energy: The ROI of Investing In Her Love Life
158. Karin’s Main Character Energy: Creating a Dating Life Full of Joy
151. “Why do I keep canceling dates?”
150. “Who should pay on a first date?”
149. How to thrive as a highly sensitive person with Jenny Walters
148. How to get out of scarcity decisions in dating
147. “I can’t get over my ex — are they holding me back, or did they raise the bar?”
144. Dating as a single mom + HSP dating with B. Marie Sanders
143. Does casual sex distract from finding partnership?
141. Ask me anything: Should I join a matchmaking database?
137. Why you don’t need to be “chill” in your dating life
136. Where do I even START?
135. How to create your essence-based preferences
134. “How can I stop being lazy in my dating life?”
133. Asking someone to be exclusive
132. Before you swipe, try this meditation
131. How your coupled friends can help you
128. The questions you don’t say out loud…
125. Dating as a plus-sized woman with Nicci Nunez and Alex Stewart
123. Talking Body Image, Diet Culture, and Your Dating Life with Chrissy King
121. Dating apps: Ask me anything
120. Ask me anything: Dating mindset edition!
119. A Conversation About Confidence with Queer Confidence Coach Alex Ray
118. Ask me anything!
117. A conversation with my coach all about sexual agency with Dr. Juliana Hauser
116. We Went Viral on TikTok! (and what that taught me about receiving good things)
109. Dating Wisdom with Jodi Rodgers from Netflix’s Love on the Spectrum
107. How to do alcohol-free dating with Amanda Kuda
106. Dating only one person at a time
105. Moving from competition to party mindset in your dating life
104. Building the love life you want with Marriage Coach Maggie Reyes
103. Why we choose situationships (and how to get out of this pattern) with therapist Dontea’ Mitchell-Hunter
102. Big Happy Money and your love life with Serena Hicks
101. How to stop “shoulding” yourself
100th Episode Celebration: Chris Asks Lily Anything
97. Is an emotionally intelligent AND attractive partner possible?
96. How to respond to bad dating advice
95. What to do when you’re jealous of your coupled friend
94. How Jessie Jolles and Claire Burns created badass love lives
93. Why West Elm Caleb is a Call to Action For the Dating World
91. Episode Spotlight: Envision your future partner meditation
90. What to expect from 2022 dating (my trend predictions!)
89. How the hell to meet someone in-person
88. Overcoming dating self-doubt with these 3 steps
87. Your dating life is not a joke
86. A loving pep talk: From slow burn to soul-quenching support
85. Support, clarity, and community for your dating life
84. How to move through your holiday dating anxiety
83. “It doesn’t take time, it takes alignment.” (here’s how to build it)
72. How to Harness Your Inner Elle Woods (plus other dating lessons from Legally Blonde)
71. Embracing Your Enoughness with Dina Scippa
70. My thoughts on Bennifer 2.0 (and should you get back with your ex?)
69. Worthiness + Winning Results with Simone Grace Seol
68. How Shwetika learned to date (and live) on her own terms in the Brazen Breakthrough
67. Why I’m changing my “origin” story
66. How to redefine your dating ROI
65. The balance between immediate and future self-care
64. How to love the shit out of your single life with Vasavi Kumar
63. Envision your future partner meditation
62. The patriarchy and your dating mindset with Becky Mollenkamp
61. Cultivating a mindfulness practice for your dating life with Upasna Gautam
60. Bless and Release: How to make room for the “Hell, Yes!” people in your life
59. How to own your story and create a different ending
55. How to Build An Irresistible Dating Profile
54. Dating apps are not the answer
52. Lessons from The Brazen Breakthrough: Choosing questions that qualify the right people (and disqualify the rest)
51. Lessons from The Brazen Breakthrough: Claiming your deeper preferences
50. Lessons from The Brazen Breakthrough: The Relationship Reflection Guide
49. Lessons from The Brazen Breakthrough: How to believe empowering thoughts in your dating life
48. Three steps to get grounded in your dating life
44. You don’t have to feel lonely in your dating life
43. Dating as a feminist act
40. Are you being too picky?
39. How to move past the “shoulds” in your dating life
38. Biggest holidays dating fears and how to move through them
37. The “What’s Going Well” Trick
35. Some quick encouragement
34. How The Brazen Breakthrough Can Transform Your Dating Life
Bonus: Why dating is so f*cking hard (and what to do about it).
31. Fear you’re a dating cliche? This is for you.
30. How to use improv rules to spark joy in your dating life
29. Creating a comparison-free dating life
28. Build your dating confidence with self-compassion
27. Live Coaching Session: Mindset shifts to get out of your dating funk
#26 – How to navigate money in your dating life
#25 – What is date coaching? With fellow dating coach Anwar White
#24 – My thoughts on Netflix’s Indian Matchmaking as a former matchmaker
#22 – Making the case for a self-indulgent dating life
#20 – Ghosting, asking out, and saying no: My go-to guide for messaging
#19 – How to move from fearful to powerful in your dating life with Life Coach Imani Nekohl
#18 – My easy system for qualifying the right dates (and saying bye-bye to the rest)
#17: Live Coaching Session | How to cut straight to meaningful conversation on dating apps
#16: The first step to a badass dating action plan
#15: Our relationship: Ask Lily and Chris anything
#14: How to build an abundance mindset in your dating life
#13: How to move on from self-limiting beliefs after a bad relationship
#11: Need a boost? Here’s an epic dating pep talk
#10: How to look and feel amazing on your virtual date with Joanna Lovering
#7: How quarantine can supercharge your dating life
#6: How to curb your freak out with self-compassion with Megan Saxelby
#5: Create a self-care plan for your dating life (no sheet masks necessary)
#3: Why self-love (and bragging) are essential to your dating life
#2: How to move on from your ex AND find the best relationship of your life
#1: Three Steps to be the Boss of Your Dating Life (and Kiss Overwhelm Goodbye)
Drum Roll Please… I’m Going On Tour!
Stop Swiping: My best dating app advice
Your guide to being single this holiday season
Dating app purchases are bogus. Here’s what to do instead.
Want a relationship? Here’s how you get it.
Oprah’s advice changed my dating life.
The Scientific Reason Dating Apps Suck (and how to beat them)
Conquering the Dating Scene in LA → Morgan’s Story
From Skeptical to In-Control → Zulay’s story
Dating Pep Talk: How to Beat the Numbers Game
Why I love dating apps (and how you can, too)
What I learned from my matchmaking horror story
Why I Broke Up with Matchmaking for Date Coaching
This Self Love Challenge will Change the Way You Date
How to Bring More Control to Your Dating Life
Think you know what’s wrong with your dates? The one mindset shift that’ll change your life.
Why Gilmore Girls Fans Are Closer to Finding Extraordinary Love (And How You Can Be, Too)
How to Thrive this Cuffing Season According to Ariana Grande
I Used to Make Penis Hats for a Living (and Other Things I’m Embarrassed to Tell You)
What it Means When a Dude Calls You Intimidating (guess what, it’s a good thing!)
What Oprah Taught Me About Dating
DIY Dating vs. Matchmaking
Empathetic Ladies- The First Date Guide to Less Emotional Labor
One Trick to Makeover Your Dating Profile
How to Decode Your First Date
Three Tools to Fix Your Dating Life.
Swiping With Intention
Make Online Dating Work for You… Like, Today.
The One Step to Create a Dating Life You Love