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What you want is 100% possible, and it's my job to help you attract it with ease.

In this 1:1 container, you'll go from: "It's hopeless..."

to the best dates of your life, the deepest self-trust, the most joyful love life imaginable.

Learn how to attract the right partner with a joyful AF dating life in just 3 months.

This 1:1 container is for you if:

You're a badass feminist, and dating feels like the one place you're always behind.

You're constantly doubting yourself, your choices, your desires in your love life.

You want to learn how to attract the RIGHT partner with ease and joy, as soon as possible. 

You're a late bloomer OR have just gotten out of the wrong long term relationship.

Here's what we'll do together

Heal your dating life patterns- whether that's attracting unavailable people, settling again and again, or shrinking from dating all together, you'll untangle and rewrite old patterns that no longer serve you.

Build a bespoke dating strategy so you settle-proof your love life for good. We'll create a unique, powerful, joyful AF dating profile and in-person dating plan that is easy to follow, with celebration milestones along the way.

Learn to trust yourself unequivocally. Set boundaries with ease. Release worry as your default and attract the best dates of your life with ease. 

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Feminist dating coach. Former top matchmaker. Southern New Yorker. And author of the upcoming book, Thank You, More Please: A feminist guide to breaking dumb dating rules and finding love.

After setting up hundreds of dates, I realized that the answer to finding love was much deeper than a setup, and that the way we are taught to date is still stuck in the patriarchal dark ages. Six years ago, I broke up with matchmaking to help women build magnetic, easeful dating lives that feel like self-care and that lead to the RIGHT relationship.

This work is what led me to create a joyful AF dating life that attracted the love of my life, and the same is true for hundreds of my clients.

I can't wait to work with you 1:1. 

Hey gorgeous friend.

I'm Lily.

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"I've become more confident in myself and what I'm looking for.”

I'm simply less anxious about my love life, less attached to dating apps, and feel better equipped and in a better mental state to really go after what I want. I'm finally focusing on what I want, instead of giving weight to what everyone else tells me I "should" want.

It's worth it if you invest in it! The financial obligation may feel scary or like a lot, but you are investing in YOU and, if you're like me and haven't done that in your dating life, it will pay off!" 

"I had just been through a difficult break up and had no idea where to even begin"

Whatever reservations I might have had initially were immediately taken away after meeting Lily for the first time. My dating life is now thriving.

“Lily is the reason I’m in the best relationship of my life."

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The Investment

Everyone’s journey is different. Find the right package for you:

$7,500

ONE TIME PAYMENT

One and done

3 months of 1:1 support

Bespoke dating strategy

6 hour-long 1:1 sessions with Lily

Daily M-F voice memo coaching in Voxer

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3 months of 1:1 support

Bespoke dating strategy

6 hour-long 1:1 sessions with Lily

Daily M-F voice memo coaching in Voxer

12 months access to our group program, Main Character Dating

12 months access to our group program, Main Character Dating

$2,500/m

PAYMENT PLAN

3 Monthly Payments

This is an invitation to rewrite your love story and start attracting exactly what you want, with a feminist coach who has your back. 

Your love life deserves your attention.
Not because you're broken in any way (you're not).
But because your desires matter to your well being.
Your love life matters to your well being.

FAQs

How much time does this take? +

2 hours per week for 3 months. That's all you need to get results. Real talk- If you don’t have time to invest in creating a more joyful, purposeful, fulfilling dating life, then maybe you don’t have time for a relationship. Change takes commitment, and this program requires just that. We’re confident that this 1:1 coaching is the quickest, clearest way make the right relationship inevitable with a joyful AF dating life.

Can you get *me* results?+

If you’re ready to do the work, you’re in the right place. And yes, if you’re still reading this page and nodding your head saying, “Whoa, that’s me,” then this 1:1 work is for you, right now. It will change everything about your love life in just 3 months.

When can we start? +

We can start our 1:1 work as soon as next week. Fill out our application here, and if you're a good fit, you'll be sent a link to schedule a no-pressure call with me to get all your questions answered. After that, once you join, you can schedule all our calls at your convenience and we can get started right away.

Should I do Main Character Dating or 1:1? +

One-on-One Coaching gets my clients 12 months of results in just 3 months. This package is best for folks who want to go fast and who want privacy to unpack deeper patterns in a supportive as hell space. Main Character Dating comes with each 1:1 package (if you're not already a client in MCD) which means you can meet your new single bestie inside and supercharge your results.

How long do I have to decide? +

I enroll 1:1 clients on a rolling basis and have limited spots for this package. When my limited 1:1 spots are filled, they're filled. If you feel an inkling of "This is for me," apply NOW. Let's fucking do this.