THE FREE CHALLENGE

Stop Freezing, Start Flirting

A 3-day coaching challenge for late bloomers to confidently flirt and land a date IRL

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Sunday, October 25 - Tuesday, October 27, 2026

7 - 8pm EST

All who register will get the recordingS
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What you'll learn:

Learn a simple, step-by-step plan to move through the freeze and the fear confidently with our Rejection Resilience Plan and 10 seconds of courage tool. Getting you out of overthinking and fear and into action.

How to Talk to Someone Cute Without Freezing

Learn HOW to flirt and how to do it in your own voice without changing who you are. Plus, exactly what to say when you see someone you're attracted to.

The Feminist Flirting Roadmap

Get off dating apps and into IRL dating. How to ask friends to set you up, how to approach people at parties and flirt, and how to make IRL dating your real dating strategy so you're not stuck on apps waiting. You'll walk away with a concrete plan to attract a date IRL this month.

The Party Action Plan

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Real results from past attendees who used this strategy:

Cara was stuck and avoiding putting herself out there. She learned how to show up and flirt. She met her partner and is now planning to move in together.

Allyson went from paralyzed by anxiety about approaching people to confidently asking someone out in person at an event. She learned how to shoot her shot and actually did it. Now she's dating.

Ellie was frozen by shame about her inexperience. She learned the tools in this program and took action. She's now dating with confidence.

Shelley doubted she'd find love at 54 after years of dating frustration. She learned how to flirt unapologetically and put herself out there. She met a partner who is exactly what she wanted.

I’m a former top matchmaker, feminist dating coach, and author of Thank You, More Please (who was also a former “late bloomer”). 

After setting up 399 dates, I realized the problem with dating sucking wasn’t that we were “too late”—it was a patriarchal dating culture teaching late bloomers to play small, “be embarrassed” and “settle already.” Now, I help late bloomers break outdated dating rules, own what they want, and attract love with joy and power.

I’ve coached hundreds of late bloomers to find the best relationships of their lives— and now it’s your turn. 

SAVE YOUR SEAT
Hey, I’m Lily

Don’t let another year slip by feeling stuck. The love you want is closer than you think.

Ready to stop freezing and start flirting?

Join this free challenge and get the feminist strategy that’s helped 400+ late bloomers make the right relationship inevitable.