#18 - My easy system for qualifying the right dates (and saying bye-bye to the rest)
The problem: You go on dates with people who turn out to be duds. You can’t find good people. You’re stuck in a never-ending cycle of bad dates. Well, in this episode I am going to share my three-step system for qualifying and disqualifying dates.
Yes, my friend, the idea of qualifying the right people versus the wrong ones might be scary. And to get what you want from your dating life, you need to create a high barrier to entry. You have access to the many, and you need to be swiping and dating for the few. My system will help you do just that.
HERE’S A BREAKDOWN OF TODAY’S EPISODE:
Why you are stuck in a cycle of bad dates and what you can do about it.
Dating apps are amazing tools if you are using them to your advantage - they can help you to get to know your dating personality and meet someone outside of your social circle.
We dig into the importance of defining your deeper dating “why” and asking for what you want.
Identifying the smallest number of people who could be right for you and acting on that list.
The difference between checklist preferences and essence-based preferences.
Using your essence-based preferences to create qualifying and disqualifying questions for dating apps.
This system will allow you to find people who know who they are, know what they are looking for, and who are game for what you are bringing to the table. That is the power to this process. I want you to have a bold vision for your dating future and build the systems to get it.
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