40. Are you being too picky?
When is pickiness a problem versus when your preferences are perceived as picky by others - that’s the topic of this week’s episode.
"Why haven't I found my person yet? Maybe I am just too picky?"
Sound familiar?
PIckiness can be a problem when the story you tell yourself is that nobody is good enough for you. I share why that type of story is typically rooted in past trauma and past self-protection; and what you can do about it.
I also explore how dating from a place of abundance instead of proving something or someone wrong helps you attract people you align with and are excited to be around.
In other words, when you stop trying to please others and instead turn the focus on your wants and needs, your person will gravitate towards you.
As you listen to this episode, ask yourself these questions: What do I sincerely want? How can I permit myself to be authentic? And, how can I work on remaining open to being surprised?
Chances are, my gorgeous friend, you are not too picky. But that doesn't mean there isn't some work to be done.
Here’s a breakdown of today’s episode:
When pickiness can be a problem: an example might be something like a story you're telling yourself about no one being good enough for you. That's a function of trauma and self-protection, not preferences.
Why your preferences are neutral.
Exploring the why behind your preferences.
Crafting your ability to remain open to being surprised.
Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today’s Episode:
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