Quit Being The Best Friend
How to boldly shoot your shot and get what you want in love, friendship, and work– without overthinking or anxiety
(so you can pitch yourself, plan the date, and send the ask you've been sitting on for months, this week)
Tuesday, September 15th
6pm EST/3pm PST
You're the one everyone leans on. You give the advice you never take, plan every trip, remember every birthday. You hyped up your friend to leave her job and start the thing– while your own dream sits untouched. You're bold for other people. And the one time you put yourself first, the guilt spiraled you right back into shrinking.
You're the careful one. There's a cutie you keep meaning to text back, a raise you've scripted forty times and never asked for, a business idea in your Notes app from 2022. You research, you second-guess, you call it diligence — and a year later you haven't made a move.
You look impressive on paper, the life people call you "lucky" for, so you can't admit it's gone stagnant. You watch a friend post the launch, the trip, the relationship, and feel the ache: when is it my turn? But you're too burnt out to chase the audacious thing, so it stays on the shelf.
In this free training, you’ll learn the key steps to break free from people-pleasing, trust yourself fully, and start creating a life that feels deeply fulfilling, fun, and unapologetically yours—no more second-guessing or holding yourself back.
If you give the advice you never take. You plan the trips, remember the birthdays, hype up everyone else's dream while yours sits in your Notes app from 2022. You're bold for other people.
Frozen for yourself—this is for you.
You are super self aware, but frozen from taking action. Years of therapy, podcasts, coaching, you can diagnose yourself better than anyone. You know exactly why you don't put yourself out there, ask him out, pitch yourself. And you're still on the couch, waiting to feel ready.
You're the quiet dreamer with the big vision– the business, the love story, the whole different life. But the second you picture actually doing it, it's so overwhelming you shrink. So you wait. For perfect conditions that have never once shown up.
Join me live and you'll learn:
Learn how to name what you actually want, even if you've never been able to answer that, and resurrect the dream you quietly gave up on instead of journaling about it for another year
Learn why insight was never the thing standing in your way — and the unconventional formula that gets you off the couch and into action.
How To Cast an AUDACIOUS VISION For Your Future And Follow Through
Learn what playing the reliable, everyone-comes-to-me best friend is really costing you — and how to take up space in your own life instead of the background of everyone else's.
HOW TO STEP INTO MAIN CHARACTER ENERGY
in every relationship
WHY YOU'RE STILL NOT TAKING ACTION
even though you've done the therapy, read the books, and know all the "right" things
THE MAIN CHARACTER ENERGY FORMULA
HOW TO complete 30 dares in 30 days to increase your main character energy in LOVE, FRIENDSHIP, AND WORK
Learn our proprietary process for shooting your shot unapologetically — so you create real opportunities instead of waiting to be chosen.
figuring out how to live full-time in Europe, attracting sexy dates, and building her own consulting company that received thousands in grant funding. In six months.
From being burnt out at a job that relied on her for everything, caregiving and people pleasing in all her relationships, to→
Jackie
After the mastermind, she took massive, self-trusting action – launched her business, got invited to speak at events, wrote and sent newsletters with amazing results, traveled around the world, got her first clients, and trusted herself fully.
Laura had a business plan for her dream business but was paralyzed with fear from taking action for years.
Laura
Lily is a top feminist dating coach and founder of Date Brazen who is going to help you take center stage in your whole freaking life.
She has helped thousands create lives that are settle-proof, confident, and epic– that attract more than they thought possible in love, friendship, and work.
Now, it’s your turn.
Right after this free class, doors will open for my 6 month coaching Mastermind
A 6 month, small group coaching experience where people pleasing, burnt out feminists learn how to give fewer fucks, stop playing small, and finally get what you want in love, friendship, and at work.
Inside this group program, you’ll complete 100 self-serving, audacious dares in 100 days to become magnetic to the friendship, love, and work life you deserve.
The Breakthrough Dare Session
You have one giant, scary thing you want but keep avoiding. "Start the business." "Make real friends here." "Put myself out there again." It feels too big, so you don't start. This hour is where we make it small enough to actually do, and then you do the first piece with me on the call.
Here is what happens in that session:
- We break one giant dare into its first real moves. "Launch the business" becomes: name your offer, set your price, write the three-sentence pitch, send it to five people. "Build my friend group" becomes: text two people this week, propose a specific plan, invite someone to the thing. You leave with the actual list, in order, with an accountability map to match.
- You do the first one on the call. We write the pitch and you send it. We draft the text and you hit send. We set the price and you post it. Not homework for later, the first move happens in our hour, with me right there.
- We take avoidance and anxiety off the driver's seat. The overthinking, the "once I feel ready," the researching it to death, we name your exact pattern and build the workaround so it stops running the show.
This bonus call means we shrink what would have been 3 months of overthinking or avoidance into an hour of coaching and action.
Don’t let another year slip by feeling stuck. The LIFE you want is closer than you think.
Ready to Quit Being the Best Friend and Finally Shoot Your Shot?
Join this free training. It's time you get what you want in love, friendship, and work!
