This is for you if:
This free training gives you the feminist dating strategy that makes the right relationship inevitable — even if you've never been in one before.
You're not in a relationship yet — not because something is wrong with you.
Because patriarchal dating culture deliberately taught you to wait, shrink, and settle — and called it advice. It either kept you passive, waiting to be chosen. Or it had you trying everything — the apps, the advice, the putting yourself out there — without a strategy that actually centers you and what you want.
You've never been in a relationship — or never been in a good one.
You deflect at the family dinner when someone asks why you're still single — and spend the drive home wondering if they're right. You get a wedding invitation and feel the familiar sting: everyone figured this out but you. Friday night, scrolling your phone alone, you catch yourself wondering if your person actually exists — or if you've somehow already missed them.
Join me live and you'll learn:
Learn how patriarchal dating culture has been sabotaging your love life — and the feminist dating strategy that replaces everything it taught you with a joyful, clear plan that actually works.
Why Dating Has Felt So Hard
Learn why zero dating experience is not a dealbreaker to finding the right relationship — and what actually makes love inevitable for people exactly like you.
Why It's Not Too Late
For the right people. Learn how to become irresistible to the right people — even if you've never dated before or are restarting your dating life — without forcing it or waiting to be chosen.
How To Become A Magnet
UNSTUCK: 1:1 VOICE MEMO COACHING WITH LILY
Essence-Based Preferences + The Matchmaker Protocol
Define what the right relationship actually feels like for you, then learn the qualifying and disqualifying questions that tell you who's worth your time, what to say, and when to bless and release.
Magnetic Dating Profile
Rebuild your profile and boundary plan so you can attract the right people (and disqualify the wrong ones fast) so you become unbothered and magnetic
The Courage Plan
For everyone who knows what they should do but cannot get themselves to start -- who feels behind, ashamed, or quietly convinced it is not going to work for them. This is where that changes. You will leave with a concrete action plan for your specific fears and the self-trust to actually execute it.
This bonus expires 24 hours after the live training.
I'm a Southern New Yorker, former top matchmaker, feminist dating coach, and author of Thank You, More Please.
After setting up 399 dates — and feeling like a late bloomer myself — I realized the problem with dating sucking wasn't that we were "too late." It was a patriarchal dating culture teaching women dating to play small, "be embarrassed," and "settle already."
Now I help people who've never had a relationship (or never had a good one) break outdated dating rules, own exactly what they want, and attract love with joy and power.
I've coached hundreds who felt “too late” to find the best relationships of their lives — and now it’s your turn.
Real results from past attendees who used this strategy:
Shelley used the Main Character Dating Strategy and found a deeply aligned relationship in her 50s after years of dating frustration.
Maya did the Feminist Dating Detox and finally approached someone IRL. She went from ghosting cycles to an engaged, joyful relationship.
Liz, who’d never been in a romantic relationship, met her girlfriend after applying the Matchmaker Protocol on a dating app.
Don’t let another year slip by feeling stuck. The love you want is closer than you think.
Ready to attract the RIGHT partner—and stop spiraling, shrinking, or settling?
Join this free training and get the feminist strategy that’s helped 400+ late bloomers make the right relationship inevitable.
