How to attract the right partner if you’re 30+ and never had a relationship (or never had a good one)
In this free training, feminist dating coach Lily Womble shares a bold, evidence-based framework to help you attract the right partner without games, performative chill, or dating burnout.
If you’ve felt stuck in endless swiping, situationships, or self-doubt—and you’re ready for a dating life as powerful as the rest of your life—this training is for you.
This free training will teach you how to feel confident + find love as a late bloomer - even if you’re convinced you missed the boat.
Monday, February 9th
6pm EST/3pm PST
You’ll learn three skills that make the right relationship inevitable.
The Matchmaker Protocol is the skill of owning what you want and vetting for it quickly and confidently. You’ll learn how to recognize alignment, effort, and emotional availability early—so you stop spending time on the wrong people, avoid dead ends and situationships, and keep moving forward toward the right relationship.
The Matchmaker Protocol
Before you can attract the right partner, you have to stop dating inside systems designed to make you doubt yourself. The Feminist Dating Detox teaches you how to detox from scarcity-based app culture, anxiety-as-truth, and advice that tells you to shrink or perform femininity—so you trust your desires, move with clarity, and stop getting stuck.
The Feminist Dating Detox
Where you'll learn how to become magnetic to the right people-- online and in person-- so you can attract—and be in—the best relationship of your life. Real momentum, without the burnout. Main characters don’t wait or shrink; they move with magnetic clarity, joy and confidence.
The Main Character Dating Strategy
Real results from past attendees who used this strategy:
Shelley used the Main Character Dating Strategy and found a deeply aligned relationship in her 50s after years of dating frustration.
Maya did the Feminist Dating Detox and finally approached someone IRL. She went from ghosting cycles to an engaged, joyful relationship.
Liz, who’d never been in a romantic relationship, met her girlfriend after applying the Matchmaker Protocol on a dating app.
Don’t let another year slip by feeling stuck. The love you want is closer than you think.
Ready to attract the RIGHT partner—and stop spiraling, shrinking, or settling?
Join this free training and get the feminist strategy that’s helped 400+ late bloomers make the right relationship inevitable.
—former top matchmaker, feminist dating coach, and author of Thank You, More Please.
After setting up 399 dates (and being a late bloomer myself) I realized the problem with dating sucking wasn’t that we were “too late”—it was a patriarchal dating culture teaching late bloomers to play small, “be embarrassed” and “settle already.” Now, I help late bloomers break outdated dating rules, own what they want, and attract love with joy and power.
I’ve coached hundreds of late bloomers to find the best relationships of their lives—and I’d love to help you, too.
This is just the beginning.
A When you RSVP, you’ll get an exclusive invitation to join Main Character Dating—our signature, feminist group coaching program for late bloomers who are done waiting and ready to step into their most badass love life.
Main Character Dating is a 12-month group program for feminist late bloomers that teaches you how to attract the RIGHT partner with a confident, joyful dating life.
Couch to Coffee Date in 30 Days
A short, action-based challenge designed to take you from avoiding dating to going on some of the best dates of your life in just 30 days. Even if you're scared to start, not sure you're "ready," or totally "inexperienced".
This Challenge will give you a clear, accelerated path forward toward a main character dating life. You'll eliminate your overthinking and avoidance with a quick daily action step (Monday–Friday), a small accountability pod, and a small-group call with me and only two others so you know exactly what to do and actually follow through, fast.
This bonus alone is designed to create real dating progress—fast—and would be worth the investment on its own. Instead of dreading dating or getting stuck in your head, you start building real traction toward the right relationship immediately.
