#4: Live Coaching Session | How to find love without a dating app
Hello gorgeous friend-
I have some big news for you and your dating life: You don’t have to be on a dating app to find love.
I know this may sound shocking coming from a professional dating coach, so stick with me.
Conventional dating wisdom says that you need to play the numbers game, that dating apps exist so you MUST be on them to be “trying” in your dating life.
I know this isn’t the truth. Dating apps are amazing at 2 things: 1. Introducing you to someone outside of your social circle and 2. Getting to know your dating personality. But they are not the answer to your dating life.
Today’s episode is a live coaching session with my client, Amelia, where we dive into her dating life, hear about her struggles and come up with three actionable strategies for her (and you) to use right now to find love in-person.
Here’s a breakdown of today’s episode:
Meet Amelia from Chattanooga, TN! Her serendipitous journey to Date Brazen was many years in the making, and after she experienced yet another terrible date, she decided that it was time to get help.
“Gremlins” refer to those voices that keep nipping at our heels, saying nasty things about our worthiness, our desirability, our potential, and our ability to get what we want. Originally coined by queen, Brené Brown.
Amelia shares her feelings about dating apps, and feels intuitively like they’re not where she wants to be right now.
Amelia and I define her best dating strategy as building her best life, which will in turn attract her best dates.
I share why it’s okay (and sometimes healthy) to not be on a dating app - these apps can sometimes be distracting, discouraging and depleting.
Conventional dating advice says, “Dating apps exist, therefore you must be on them in order to be trying to successfully date.” But this isn’t actually what leads to great dates and amazing relationships.
I give Amelia some tools to listen to her intuition, which can be a revolutionary act in a world that tells women how to behave, especially in dating.
Dating confidence is built in-person - being brave enough to engage with someone you find attractive and start a conversation is a challenge.
Listen to the full episode above to learn the three strategies I teach Amelia to start dating in-person and off dating apps!
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