92. From ordinary to extraordinary: Creating a safe and confident sex life with Vanessa Marin
I have a spicy and amazing episode for you this week! Joining me to talk about how to take the intimidation out of being intimate is Sex Psychotherapist, Vanessa Marin. Vanessa’s work is so impactful and has shifted the way couples (and singles) view sex, helping them create extraordinary sex lives and relationships.
In this episode, we get into the topic of authenticity in the bedroom, explore some of the shoulding we have about sex, like, “I should be more bold and adventurous,” and discuss the various baggage we carry around about sex and dating.
Hot-takes from this episode:
Why we think we should be a certain way in our sex lives.
Struggling with authenticity in the bedroom. It’s okay to be yourself!
Creating emotional safety within conversations around sex.
How to handle the fear or discomfort that comes with expressing your sexual desires or preferences with your partner.
Sex compatibility green flags!
How to encourage natural conversations about sex with a partner.
The value of talking about sex with friends.
Vanessa shares her hot takes on using toys and porn for orgasms.
The difference between responsive vs. spontaneous sex drives.
Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today’s Episode:
Vanessa on Instagram @vanessamarintherapy
Date Brazen on Instagram @datebrazen
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